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Scanning Around With Gene: A Shoebox Full of Mom
What things would you choose to represent 90 years of someone's life? Here's part one of two looks at a shoebox full of memories I kept to represent my mother.
Written by Gene Gable on July 2, 2010
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My mother wasn't exactly the sentimental type. So when it came time to go through her papers, I knew I would find plenty of receipts and cancelled checks, but little in the way of ephemera or memorabilia.
Yet on the last trip I made to my childhood home, I finally scored something more emotional than old tax returns.
I had just about given up looking for anything significant when I found it in the back of her bedroom closet: a perfectly intact scrapbook she kept from 1935 to 1937, when she was a junior and senior in high school. It was the first I'd ever seen of it and the earliest meaningful record of my mother's life. Click on any image for a larger version.
My mom didn't talk a lot about her high-school years. Like so many of that generation, she preferred to focus on the war years. Those were, I'm sure, more memorable. I didn't serve in any wars, so I could never relate to that period. But I did go to high school and it's almost scary to think my mother did, too.
Looking through the scrapbook made me feel sorry for my mom. She was sent away for high school to St. Mary's Academy, a Catholic all-girls boarding school, where she worked in the cafeteria to pay her tuition. Here is a picture of Sister Laurentia, who, we discover from the caption, had a special relationship with God. That is followed by several of the holy cards my mother also kept in her scrapbook.
The influence of religion is everywhere in my mother's scrapbook and her early life, which included two older brothers and two younger ones. She was the classic middle child and only girl in an Irish Catholic family.
My grandmother was a bit of a religious fanatic and I imagine my mother was under a lot of pressure to join a convent. Her younger brother later became a priest.
But once you strip away the religious layer, the rest of my mother's scrapbook seems typical. She had tickets for a number of football games at nearby Loyola University the then all-male Catholic institution where several of her brothers attended.
The Chesterfield ad is from the back cover of one of the football programs back when it was okay to market cigarettes to children.
My mother was popular at Valentine's Day, it appears, though sadly the only Valentine from a boy bears her brother's signature.
My favorites are the hand-made variety, of which there were quite a few. Even the few cents it cost to buy a Valentine was precious in those Depression-era days.
Go to page 2 to see the St. Mary's school yell, a Parlor Call Card, and nun-drawn calligraphy.































Thanks for sharing you
Thanks for sharing you memories with us. I'm glad you found what surely was one of your Mom's hidden treasures.
Beautiful Experience
It was an emotional and visual experience and it truly shows the power of visual communication and how one can communicate to another generation no matter if its your mother or an unknown person from another side of the world. It was a beautiful experience thanks for sharing.
shoebox
Great stuff! I always enjoy looking at your column. Don't know how much paper my dad will have to go through, but I think I'll shoot his junkyard and post it somewhere one of these days.
Keith McGraw
Appreciation
Thank you! I truly appreciate what you have shared with us. With both of my parents now deceased, I have just returned from traveling to my family home of 60 years, which has recently sold. While there, I packed up all of the memorabilia from my parents years of raising our family of five children. In the midst, I discovered my mother's keepsake box, which was filled with hidden treasures of times past. I also came across some special treasures of my father. I will pass these down to my children, nieces and nephews, and hope that they continue to convey our family story.
Thanks
Thanks for sharing you memories with us. I'm glad you found what surely was one of your Mom's hidden treasures. Knowing our parents for all of our lives, we tend to hear the same stories over and over. I treasure the times when something triggers a memory for my dad and I find out something about him that I never knew.
Mom's shoebox
Thanks for sharing your mom's high school life with us. It's eye opening to find someone you always thought of as "mom" or "dad" or "uncle" were just as complex and interesting as we like to think we ourselves are. The discovery of shared traits and abilities hopefully makes us realize and appreciate the connections between generations.